Don't worry, I won't say anything.

[They really won't. Odds are by tomorrow they will feel really embarrassed about venting in the first place.]

I guess the hard part is that it never seems like the right time for apologies. Any time I have tried, she either brushes it off or tells me I don't even know what I'm apologizing for. And yeah, stuff is hard here. There's always bad stuff happening. So there's never really a good time for it.